by Thom Rainer
This book outlines the traits an outwardly focused Christian should have in regards to church. Do you put your needs first in church? Does the singing have to be a certain way for you? Can only one person lead an initiative because they always have? I know that the world says put yourself first. Look after number one. But, that is not the way you are supposed to do it at church. Stop complaining about the music style and what you want. Stop demanding church leaders do things the way you want them to do. Stop trying to get your way in church business meetings. Instead, put others first like Christ did. Put your desires last. Become a servant instead of a whiner and complainer. We must stop being “I want” members. This means praying for leadership and figuring out how you can serve the greater good of the church. As church members, we have a duty to keep our wants out of church and focus on how we will serve. What is your heart leading you to do? The next time an opportunity arises volunteer and become an active member. The church is only good as the some of its parts.
In a strong church, the people of the church one another. If you’re only waiting for the preacher to be your strength, then you will never have it.